Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce and Money
What does a divorce financial planner do?
A divorce financial planner analyzes the long-term financial impact of settlement options — asset division, support, taxes, and retirement — so you negotiate with facts instead of guesses. Attorneys handle the law; we model what each proposed settlement actually means for your future, often finding that a "50/50" split is far from equal after taxes and liquidity.
What is a CDFA®, and how is it different from a CFP®?
A CDFA® (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) is trained specifically in the financial mechanics of divorce — property division, support calculations, QDROs, and divorce taxation. A CFP® covers comprehensive financial planning. Betty Hedrick holds both, which means the divorce analysis connects directly to your post-divorce financial plan.
When should I bring in a financial planner during divorce?
As early as possible — ideally before filing or at the start of negotiations. Early involvement shapes what you ask for; late involvement can only react to what's already on the table. Many costly mistakes (keeping the wrong assets, ignoring tax basis) are locked in early.
Is Washington a community property state?
Yes. Washington is one of nine community property states, so most assets and debts acquired during the marriage are presumed jointly owned and subject to equitable division. What counts as separate versus community property — and how tax basis travels with each asset — is where analysis matters most.
Should I keep the house in a divorce?
Often no — but it depends on what you give up to keep it. The house is illiquid, costly to carry, and its equity may come at the expense of retirement assets that grow tax-deferred. We model "keep vs. sell" side by side over 10–20 years so the decision is financial, not just emotional.
How are retirement accounts divided?
Through specific legal instruments — typically a QDRO for 401(k)s and pensions — and mistakes are expensive and sometimes irreversible. IRAs, 401(k)s, pensions, and RSUs each divide differently and carry different tax treatment. This is the single most error-prone area of divorce finance.
What does working with you look like?
We work alongside your attorney — analyzing settlement proposals, modeling long-term outcomes, and preparing you for a confident financial life after divorce. Many clients stay on after the divorce as full financial planning clients; that transition is seamless because the plan already exists.

